Start this day off Right, Start by Leaving your Past where it Belongs…In the Past. I have Seen far too many People who Continue to Define Themselves by Their Past…Instead, Define yourself by your Possibilities.
The only Version of YOU that now Matters is the Version of YOU Going Forward…See your Life in those Terms, from that Perspective.
The only Thing that can really Hold YOU Back is your Reluctance to Fulfill your Best Possibilities…Sure, Progress is Rarely Easy…But, it is Always Possible.
No matter what the Past has been, Today is an Awesome Opportunity for YOU…You are alive, capable, motivated and in a Position to make a Positive Difference in some way.
Look Forward, see that Opportunity and Make the Most of it. What Really Matters now is what YOU do Next, so Make it Something Freaking Awesome!



It All Matters

Never Forget Everything YOU do Matters!…What YOU eat today, the Workout YOU did or didn’t do, the Comments YOU made to your kids, how fast YOU drive down the street, the show YOU watched last night…It ALL Matters…It ALL makes up the Awesome Fabric of your Life.
Every Moment YOU are doing Something that Matters, Something that makes a Difference…Every Moment Weaves its way into your Experience, into the Person YOU are, into the Person YOU are Becoming.
YOU truly have the Awesome Responsibility and the Amazing Opportunity of being Alive, of being Capable of Freaking Greatness…The Possibilities available to YOU in just a single Moment are Countless…Over the Course of your Lifetime the Possibilities are almost Unimaginable.
Everything YOU do Matters…Every Moment is a Treasure waiting to be Opened…Nothing is Small or Insignificant, because it is all part of your Life…Appreciate the Wonder that is in each Moment of Living….Make the Most of it, because it ALL Matters.



Opportunity Just Ahead!

This Sexual Reference day will be filled with Opportunities…Each day we are above ground YOU will be given countless Opportunities to be, or do, or create whatever YOU desire!
Sadly, very few people ever take advantage of the Opportunities that come their way…Not because they don’t want to, but because they’re unable to. Because they are not adequately prepared.
We often look at highly successful people, and conclude that their success is the result of being “in the right place at the right time.” While that is true, it was not random good fortune that put them there…It was preparation that helped them to see the Opportunity in the first place, and then to make the most of that Opportunity.
Preparation is not usually fun or exciting…It can be tedious and unfulfilling in the short term. Yet it is absolutely essential. To enjoy Success, YOU must discipline yourself, day after day, to develop your skills, increase your knowledge, make new personal contacts, and lay the groundwork for your Success.
When YOU prepare yourself…YOU are always in the right place at the right time.

Choose Your Day Wisely…





It’s over baby, let it go

No matter what you do, you cannot change it…Unless you have some cool ass Time Machine and if you do, I have a few things I would like to change going a few years back.

Don’t forget about Yesterday, take what you learned.

The stuff that went right and Yes, the stuff that went wrong too!

Remember Yesterday was composed of all the habits and choices you have made in your past.

Maybe…Just maybe, Yesterday was the best damn day of your life…In that case remember it fondly.

But don’t live there… That day is gone!

Perhaps it was the worst damn day of your life…

Move On!!



That’s right… It hasn’t happened yet so don’t sweat it so much.

Ah, It’s so full of Hope…Hope is a good thing, perhaps the best thing.

It will be a perfect opportunity to be just a little bit better than you are Today.

You can plan for it, Go ahead…But remember plans change.

It will be a new day…so if Today sucks ass…Make Tomorrow better!!

And never forget…It isn’t guaranteed…Shit happens to good people.

And it will be an opportunity to feel sore…but not sorry!



This day can be the first day of the rest of your life, if you so choose…Choose wisely my friends.

It is an opportunity to decide if you like the path you’re traveling on…or if you need a new course.

Is a great chance to start building new habits…the process of changing the YOU of Tomorrow.

Is a great opportunity to say  “YES”  to something you normally would say  “NO”  to…Remember that New Experiences bring growth.

Is your chance to say  “NO”  to something unhealthy that’s a part of your routine…Making Positive changes is Good!

Is a great day to make one better decision than you did yesterday…in life…in love…in health or even wealth.

Is an opportunity to be better than you were yesterday.

Is the time to do  “NOW”  what you were going to put off until Tomorrow.

Is the  “ONLY”  thing that’s within your control…Make good choices TODAY!!

Plans I Have Made For My Future As Of Yesterday




I am going to the gym in the morning, like I do every morning.

I will lift weights.

I will make some grunting sounds and take a selfie or ten.

Then I will go to Walmart.

I don’t need anything there, just people watching.

Will head home eventually.

Take a nap.

Wednesday…Repeat what I did on Tuesday.



Saturday….Probably the same.

Sunday…Rest Day…Lots of napping.

Weeks pass, life continues to go on.

Christmas/ New Year’s 2017.



Maybe get married again, just to punish myself.

President Kanye elected.


Move to Small Island in the Azores.

Spend my days drinking protein shakes and sending anonymous letters to White House.

Rocking in my rocking chair, fireplace, whittling, talking to myself.

Refuse to wear clothing even in public.


I am found many weeks after my death, gnawed on by animals, can’t be identified.

Buried in with wooden grave marker that reads  “John Doe…Known Only To God.”