You Had A Purpose Before Anyone Had An Opinion

STOP trying to Please everybody…If YOU are Constantly worried about what others will Think, YOU will surely Sabotage your Greatest Accomplishments before YOU even start them.
Instead, Be Kind, Be Thoughtful, Be Considerate and Show Compassion…Yet don’t be a Slave to the Opinions of others.
And by all Means, hold Yourself to the Highest Standards…Just be sure they are Truly your Standards and not merely Fears about what others may Think.
Live and Act true to what YOU know is Right and Appropriate, and Valuable…Follow your Heart, your Desires, your Intuition and your own Awesome Dreams.
My Friends, YOU can Achieve whatever YOU Choose if YOU will just have the Confidence and Persistence to see it all the way through…Whatever others might Say or Think, Create the Awesomeness in your Life that is yours to Create.


Make A Decision

Do YOU Live in Fear of making the wrong Decision?…If so, YOU are constantly Anticipating Failure then…Delaying or Avoiding the Decision because of Problems which might happen, puts YOU in a Negative Mindset…When YOU are Controlled by Fear, it Focuses YOU on the Negative…When YOU avoid making a Decision, it makes YOU a Passive Observer and a Helpless Victim.

Success and Achievement come from taking Action…And to take Action,YOU must first make an Active Decision to do so. Don’t let the Fear of making the wrong Decision prevent YOU from making any Decision at all.

It is very likely that YOU won’t make a Perfect Decision, such is Life…Instead try to make the Best Decision, based on the Direction YOU have set for yourself and the Information that’s available to YOU at the time.

Go ahead…Make the Decision…Take Action…If it turns out that YOU have made the wrong Decision, YOU have what it takes to Realize that and to make a Correction…Become a Positive, Active Participant in your Future…Decide what to do and get on with it.


Lighten Your Load

Today be Firm with the things that Matter and Flexible about the things that don’t…Remember that your Time, Energy and the Moments of your Life are too Precious to Waste.
There is nothing to be Gained and much to be Lost, by Fighting and Agonizing over trivial matters…In such cases, even when YOU Win, YOU Lose.
If something Truly makes a Difference to YOU and your World, then put the Best of yourself into it…If it doesn’t really matter, then Quietly and Calmly let it go.
Imagine how Awesome it would be if fully half of your Frustrations were to suddenly disappear…Know that YOU can easily make that happen.
Decide today to let all the Silly, Trivial Matters just float right on by…Now with a Lightened Load, YOU will then move Faster ahead than ever before.


Be Thankful

Are YOU Thankful?…It’s easy to be Thankful when all is Well, when Life is Good, when there are no Difficulties or Dark Clouds on the Horizon…Yet it is during those times when Problems and Hardships abound that Thankfulness can bring the most Value.
Being truly Thankful enables YOU to See, to Appreciate, and Value the Awesomeness that Life gives YOU every single day, even on the most Difficult of Days.
Imagine the Power of saying to yourself during a difficult Experience… “I am truly Thankful for this Opportunity.”… No matter what the Situation may be, such an Attitude can Connect YOU with the Positive Possibilities that are most certainly there.
Don’t be the Knucklehead who is not Thankful until they have something for which to be Thankful for…Realize that there’s always Something to be Thankful for and your Thankfulness will Enable YOU to see it.


Victim Or Victor?

How will YOU Choose to Live today…As a Victim or As a Victor?

Victims say “I’m too busy.”…Victors say “I’ll find the time.” Victims look for Excuses not to even make an Attempt…Victors look for ways to Get It Done…Victims ask for Pity…Victors look for Challenge.

Victims worry about who is to Blame…Victors find a way to make a Difference….Victims Complain…Victors take Action. Victims find Comfort in the Weakness of others…Victors Help others to Develop their Strengths.

Victims Agonize over yesterday’s Losses…Victors Prepare for the Opportunities of Tomorrow…Victims take Credit…Victors Accept Responsibility….Victims search for Quick and Easy answers to their Problems…Victors spend the Time and Effort needed to Build the Life they Desire.

In each day are Abundant Opportunities for YOU to be a Victim and just as many ways for YOU to be a Victor…The Choice is yours…How do you wish to live today?

You Are What You Think!

I believe when YOU can see the Beauty, YOU become Beautiful…When YOU can Appreciate and Value Achievement, YOU become Successful.
What YOU Build and Treasure within YOU flows into every corner of your Life….What YOU have within YOU is what YOU truly have.
Fill your Heart with Love and Love will soon surround YOU… Fill your Thoughts with Gratitude and Abundance will be yours.
The Priorities YOU hold within YOU will determine the Realities YOU come to know…Those things you Treasure deeply will grow to fill your World.
The person YOU appear to be on the Outside is only a faint reflection…It’s who YOU are Inside that really matters.
Fill yourself inside with Love, with Real Purpose, with Happiness and Hope and Integrity and Awesomeness…It all will flow out from YOU in a Awesome and Splendid way.


Free Yourself!

Are YOU a Worry Wart? Do YOU constantly Fear the Unknown?…Just Imagine being Free from Worry…Imagine being Free from the grips of Fear.
Think of all that YOU could Accomplish…Think of how much more Energy and Enthusiasm and Creativity YOU would have.
In fact, YOU can be Free from the Worries and Fears…YOU can be Free from them in an Instant if YOU Choose to be Free.
For Worry is your own Creation…Fear is nothing more than a Response YOU have Chosen to have.
Freedom is a Beautiful thing, it is Energizing and Powerful… Know that YOU can be Free whenever YOU choose to be Free, and once YOU make that Choice, the Fresh, Empowering Breeze of Freedom begins to waft throughout your whole Life.
This is a Beautiful day, regardless of the weather outside and YOU are Magnificently Blessed to take part of it…Free yourself to Experience the Awesomeness of it all.


Don’t Worry!

Are YOU the type that Worries about everything? When YOU Worry too much about losing something YOU have already lost it…It is your Worry that prevents YOU from enjoying the real Value of the thing YOU are so Worried about losing.
Things do Change and what is here today may well be gone tomorrow…YOU can Worry and Fret over that Reality, or YOU can choose to be Happy and make the most of all you have right now.
The joy that YOU fully Experience, YOU will not lose…The Love that YOU Live and Give, cannot be taken from your Heart by any outside circumstance.
If YOU invest yourself too heavily in the fleeting, superficial things in life, YOU will be setting yourself up for a major Disappointment when those things are no longer with YOU. Instead, learn to Treasure those Real, Substantial, Meaningful things that time and events cannot erase.
Get in the habit of fully Living each day with Meaning and Purpose…YOU will find yourself Worrying less about what YOU have to lose, and focusing more on what YOU have to use.
Express your Gratitude for all YOU have by making the very most of it…And YOU will always have plenty to be Thankful for.


Just Be YOU!

How often do YOU find yourself wasting your precious Time and Energy in a Futile attempt to live up to someone else’s standards? What are YOU trying to Prove? And why?…I like to believe true Fulfillment comes NOT from Impressing others, but from being, as Completely and Awesomely as YOU can, the Amazing person YOU are.
Consider how much of your Anxiety, Worry and Frustration comes from YOU striving to live up to the Expectations of others…To say the “right” things…Drive the “right” kind of car… Wear the “right” clothes…Of course we should be Respectful and Accepting of the people around us…We must also be careful not to become Enslaved by their Arbitrary definition of what has Value and what doesn’t.
My Friends, Break Free from the need to be Accepted…Set your own Standards, and set them High…Pursue Excellence with Sincerity…Forget about trying to Prove anything…Just go out there and be the Best YOU that YOU can be.



Most people don’t realize how Strong they truly are, for example..YOU are Stronger than your Circumstances, no matter where YOU find yourself or what Situation YOU are in, YOU are Stronger than them because YOU are the person Responsible for those Circumstance being the way they are.
YOU are Stronger than your Circumstances, so Exercise that Strength…Don’t let your Energy get weakened by the crap that surrounds YOU…Live with Intention and Direction…Use that Strength to accomplish something Positive.
YOU have the Strength to alter your Circumstances or to Improve and Rise Above them…YOU have the ability to make full use of every situation…YOU can set the Strategies and take the Actions which will change your Circumstances from Negative to Positive.
Refuse to see yourself as a victim of Circumstance…YOU are not a Victim unless YOU Choose to be…YOU are a Beneficiary of a highly favorable Circumstance…YOU are Alive and YOU are a Warrior who is fully capable of changing the world around you…Realize that Strength…Understand it and use it to be the best YOU possible.